Lisa Spillman
Lisa Spillman
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We are now helping others in their marriages and God is using us both to make a difference. I love my husband now more than ever! It’s a moment in life
that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed. Forever grateful!
We are now helping others in their marriages and God is using us both to make a difference. I love my husband now more than ever! It’s a moment in life
that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed. Forever grateful!
that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed. Forever grateful!
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I had sunk to an all-time low in being a wife. I was very frustrated, stuck, angry, bitter, and wanted my husband to change.
27 years in and I thought to myself often it must be better than this, he needs to love me differently so I can actually feel love, and why with all this searching can I not find what I’m looking for?
Where did my joy go? Where did hope go? Where did the love I once has for this man grow cold and critical? Why even though I “know” the right answers are they not making it to where I can feel them and use them in my marriage to make it better?
We were living in the same house living distracted and separate lives even doing great things for others but not making time for each other.
Lisa Spillman
Lisa Spillman
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We are now helping others in their marriages and God is using us both to make a difference. I love my husband now more than ever! It’s a moment in life
that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed. Forever grateful!
We are now helping others in their marriages and God is using us both to make a difference. I love my husband now more than ever! It’s a moment in life
that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed. Forever grateful!
that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed. Forever grateful!
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I had sunk to an all-time low in being a wife. I was very frustrated, stuck, angry, bitter, and wanted my husband to change.
27 years in and I thought to myself often it must be better than this, he needs to love me differently so I can actually feel love, and why with all this searching can I not find what I’m looking for?
Where did my joy go? Where did hope go? Where did the love I once has for this man grow cold and critical? Why even though I “know” the right answers are they not making it to where I can feel them and use them in my marriage to make it better?
We were living in the same house living distracted and separate lives even doing great things for others but not making time for each other.
I had sunk to an all-time low in being a wife. I was very frustrated, stuck, angry, bitter, and wanted my husband to change.
I had sunk to an all-time low in being a wife. I was very frustrated, stuck, angry, bitter, and wanted my husband to change.
I was not looking at my husband through the lenses of love, I was not taking ownership for any of my part, and without knowing it, I was shifting all the blame towards him and was deceived into thinking that if he would just love me the way I want to be loved then all of our problems would go away!
I remember the moment the end of July as clear as today. A friend texted me: “You didn’t seem like yourself. How can I pray for you?” Get yourself some friends who hear from God and ask
questions and pray for you!
I voice texted back “My marriage and my sleep. Both are terrible right now. I woke up at 1:30am and couldn’t go back to sleep and the night before woke up every hour.”
I remember the moment the end of July as clear as today. A friend texted me: “You didn’t seem like yourself. How can I pray for you?” Get yourself some friends who hear from God and ask
questions and pray for you!
I voice texted back “My marriage and my sleep. Both are terrible right now. I woke up at 1:30am and couldn’t go back to sleep and the night before woke up every hour.”
As I look back this was the moment that I had the courage to bring it to the light so it could be healed! And then God moved and led me to Marriage Ignite, the tool God would use to bring restoration and healing to me and my marriage. God can use anything. He used Instagram ads from that voice memo I sent to my friend. I’m forever changed and forever thankful! Mike and Janelle are the real deal and hear from God so clearly!
I’ll never forgot that first call with Mike to see if this would be a good fit for me. I vented about my frustrations, I was still playing the blame game, and had no idea how these people could help me
get out of the crazy cycle, but I decided to have an open mind. I listened to the talk Janelle gives about what this is and is not and in there she was describing so many ways I felt. So right then and
there I knew something had to change and when she said, “if you want something different, you have to do something different!” I knew this was for me because I had tried everything I knew to try!
get out of the crazy cycle, but I decided to have an open mind. I listened to the talk Janelle gives about what this is and is not and in there she was describing so many ways I felt. So right then and
there I knew something had to change and when she said, “if you want something different, you have to do something different!” I knew this was for me because I had tried everything I knew to try!
Very quickly it became apparent to me that I was going to need to do this for me not for a specific outcome or expectation I had of my husband.
I needed to make a commitment to do whatever it took to do some deep work in me and learn to fight for my marriage with some new and different tools! One of the things Janelle said to me is that when you are withholding good things from your husband you are withholding from yourself because you are one. That was a pivotal moment for me because I no longer wanted to cause myself or him pain.
I needed to make a commitment to do whatever it took to do some deep work in me and learn to fight for my marriage with some new and different tools! One of the things Janelle said to me is that when you are withholding good things from your husband you are withholding from yourself because you are one. That was a pivotal moment for me because I no longer wanted to cause myself or him pain.
Fast forward to where my life and marriage is now… just a few months later. So much healing has happened. I let God change me from the inside out and let me tell you that makes a huge
impact on your marriage!
impact on your marriage!
Once I made the decision to own my part (which was a lot of it) things shifted for us. God could work with that! I’m able to communicate more clearly, stop an argument from happening by praying first and asking the Lord when to bring something up, be passionately in love with my husband again, hope and joy are restored, and such great value knowing what the Bible says about being a wise wife to live out the rest of my days with the man God gave me to do this life here on earth with.
It’s a moment in life that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed.
Forever grateful!
It’s a moment in life that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed.
Forever grateful!
I was not looking at my husband through the lenses of love, I was not taking ownership for any of my part, and without knowing it, I was shifting all the blame towards him and was deceived into thinking that if he would just love me the way I want to be loved then all of our problems would go away!
I remember the moment the end of July as clear as today. A friend texted me: “You didn’t seem like yourself. How can I pray for you?” Get yourself some friends who hear from God and ask
questions and pray for you!
I voice texted back “My marriage and my sleep. Both are terrible right now. I woke up at 1:30am and couldn’t go back to sleep and the night before woke up every hour.”
I remember the moment the end of July as clear as today. A friend texted me: “You didn’t seem like yourself. How can I pray for you?” Get yourself some friends who hear from God and ask
questions and pray for you!
I voice texted back “My marriage and my sleep. Both are terrible right now. I woke up at 1:30am and couldn’t go back to sleep and the night before woke up every hour.”
As I look back this was the moment that I had the courage to bring it to the light so it could be healed! And then God moved and led me to Marriage Ignite, the tool God would use to bring restoration and healing to me and my marriage. God can use anything. He used Instagram ads from that voice memo I sent to my friend. I’m forever changed and forever thankful! Mike and Janelle are the real deal and hear from God so clearly!
I’ll never forgot that first call with Mike to see if this would be a good fit for me. I vented about my frustrations, I was still playing the blame game, and had no idea how these people could help me
get out of the crazy cycle, but I decided to have an open mind. I listened to the talk Janelle gives about what this is and is not and in there she was describing so many ways I felt. So right then and
there I knew something had to change and when she said, “if you want something different, you have to do something different!” I knew this was for me because I had tried everything I knew to try!
get out of the crazy cycle, but I decided to have an open mind. I listened to the talk Janelle gives about what this is and is not and in there she was describing so many ways I felt. So right then and
there I knew something had to change and when she said, “if you want something different, you have to do something different!” I knew this was for me because I had tried everything I knew to try!
Very quickly it became apparent to me that I was going to need to do this for me not for a specific outcome or expectation I had of my husband.
I needed to make a commitment to do whatever it took to do some deep work in me and learn to fight for my marriage with some new and different tools! One of the things Janelle said to me is that when you are withholding good things from your husband you are withholding from yourself because you are one. That was a pivotal moment for me because I no longer wanted to cause myself or him pain.
I needed to make a commitment to do whatever it took to do some deep work in me and learn to fight for my marriage with some new and different tools! One of the things Janelle said to me is that when you are withholding good things from your husband you are withholding from yourself because you are one. That was a pivotal moment for me because I no longer wanted to cause myself or him pain.
Fast forward to where my life and marriage is now… just a few months later. So much healing has happened. I let God change me from the inside out and let me tell you that makes a huge
impact on your marriage!
impact on your marriage!
Once I made the decision to own my part (which was a lot of it) things shifted for us. God could work with that! I’m able to communicate more clearly, stop an argument from happening by praying first and asking the Lord when to bring something up, be passionately in love with my husband again, hope and joy are restored, and such great value knowing what the Bible says about being a wise wife to live out the rest of my days with the man God gave me to do this life here on earth with.
It’s a moment in life that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed.
Forever grateful!
It’s a moment in life that has left me marked for the calling God has on my life to love God and love others! Forever changed.
Forever grateful!
We are now helping others in their marriages and God is using us both to make a difference. I love my husband now more than ever!
We are now helping others in their marriages and God is using us both to make a difference. I love my husband now more than ever!
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